Some experts advocate that sexuality education should ideally begin during infancy and toddlerhood. Being held and touched in an affectionate, nurturing way is the first introduction that a child has to a loving relationship. When many parents find out that a comprehensive sexuality education can begin before their child even speaks, they aren’t sure what to do or say and might feel overwhelmed by the task.
To try and help, I’ve put together an age-by-age guide on the major topics that parents should be thinking about and trying to cover with their children. It may seem like a long way off before difficult subjects come up in conversation with your kids, but they are listening and watching everything you do. The things you say about your body (or bodies of others), the way you react when they see you naked, and the way you talk about what parts of their body are used for set the stage for their own feelings about their bodies and sexual relationships. You are the first sex educator they have, and one of the most important. Don’t take it lightly.
Below you’ll find each guide. If you have specific questions about talking to your children, please leave a comment.
Wondering how to approach sex ed with your older child At this age, your children are on the cusp of valuing peer input as much as – if not more than – that of their parents If you haven’t already established an open and honest relationship regarding sexuality, it’s time to start working on it Your
Welcome to early elementary school, where gender roles become more important, and details about how babies are made are the focus of attention This is also the age at which I would venture to guess that many parents start feeling uncomfortable talking to their children about human sexuality Be calm and confident when your child
Early childhood is when kids start to pay a lot of attention to things around them You’ll probably notice lots of questions being thrown your way, such as “Where do babies come from” and “Why does your body look different from mine” Embrace this age! Children in this age range soak up everything, and are
If you’re shocked that “sexuality education” and “birth to 3 years” are in the same sentence, you’re probably not the only one However, teaching your children about their bodies and helping them to cultivate a healthy body image begins in infancy and is the foundation for a healthy sexual identity If you’re unsure about what